Sunday, December 22, 2013

Is Your Light Shining This Christmas Season?

Last evening, Scott took me to see the lights in Elizabethton’s (TN) Golf Course Acres. For several years now, the residents line their streets with white bags, filled with sand and a candle. It was beautiful . . . and it was incredibly enjoyable seeing the luminaries with the top down on the Mustang since it was like 70 degrees?!?!


This morning during my quiet time I was reflecting back to the beauty of those lit candles . . . the soft glow, giving a beautiful effect along the many streets. It also took me back years ago when I did this at my parents’ house. For those of you who know where I grew up, and lived until March of this year, mom and dad’s driveway was fairly long. So one Christmas I decided to line the driveway with the white paper bags, filled with sand and a votive candle. I remember the candle had to be placed just right in the center as to not catch the bag on fire and to ensure the brightest glow. I also remember lighting them was no easy task since there were so many. But when I was finished, it was a lovely outdoor lighting display. By the way, I only did this once :)

Just as I was diligent in lighting those votives, I believe our lives are to be like shining lights for God, reflecting his glory throughout the world. In Psalms 18:28 the Bible reads “For thou wilt light my candle, the Lord my God will enlighten my darkness”. How are we letting our lights show?

Recently during one of our live Facebook chats, we talked about “Blessed to be a Blessing”. As I’m writing, I realize how nicely this blog ties in with that theme, as well.  Many ways we talked about being a blessing to others, like going by to visit someone, if only for a few minutes, or picking up the phone to call or text someone, just to let you know you’re thinking of them, is what makes our lights glow. During this particular Facebook chat, we discussed how many times we think we have to do big things, which cost money, in order to be a blessing to someone. But you know what? If that’s the case we are missing many opportunities to let our light shine. Quit looking for big ways to shine your light. Instead, take advantage of the opportunities God has already provided us in order for our lights to glow.

Last night when we arrived home, I quickly noticed one of our candles in the kitchen window was not glowing, despite all the lights that remained on. This morning I thought about that burnt out candle and how quickly people often notice when our lights are not shining. Has your candle become dim because of the hustle and bustle of the Christmas season? Better yet, how often do people notice when they are? Have you snipped your wick and positioned it in the center of your life to ensure the brightest glow possible?

It is my prayer I not only let my candles, pick icicles and Christmas lights shine upon the earth this time of year but my light will shine today, tomorrow and throughout the year . . . through my life.

Saturday, December 21, 2013

How are you keeping Christ in Christmas this year?



With all the hustle and bustle of the Christmas season, how are you keeping Christ in Christmas this year?

One thing I have noticed is more people saying “Merry Christmas”. Have you? I know I have been very mindful to wish my acquaintances Merry Christmas. This is certainly one way to keep Christ in Christmas but how are other ways we can do this?

Well, our live Facebook chat this past week was on about this very thing. We had several participants during the live chat, and Scott and I were certainly blessed to read their thoughts so I want to share some of those with you:

·        Remembering not just at the season but every day that life is about "presence" not just presents. People need "us" not necessarily things. Doing unto others as you would have them do to you.

·        You know we live in the Bible belt and we're more sheltered here vs the rest of the Nation. In Wilmington, NC it is more liberal and alternative. They're more about coexisting... The Bible says where two or more are gathered along with God if there are 25 people who believe, will you spare our land... we have to be the people asking God to spare our land and acknowledge Christ...

·        I was at a lady's devotional recently and one of the ladies mentioned she had created an angel tree (I think it was an angel tree) in addition to her Christmas tree to keep Christ in the forefront during the Christmas season since it is Christ's birthday.

·        I'm keeping Christ in Christmas by supporting my family with love, support, and understanding. I'm also keeping Christ in Christmas by keeping faith in the Lord's plan. Even though I don't understand certain moments in my life, it is His guidance that keeps me on track as to where I need to be.

·        I've noticed more people are saying Merry Christmas. Also, if they say happy holidays, I always smile and say Merry Christmas back to them. I've also seen more Christmas wishes on hours of operation at banks etc. We always read about the birth of Christ on Christmas Eve as a family before bed, and my daughter gets 3 gifts from Santa in honor of the 3 kings who took gifts to baby Jesus. (A great idea someone told me about long ago and we've always done that.)

·        I am happy to see so many Christians finally speaking up more and standing up more for God's ways and not just being quiet about it.

·        It’s best for all of us to stand up for Christ and speak for Him. I know He's extremely capable to fight His own battles but I'd rather stand in the gap for Him as opposed to ignoring Him and experiencing His wrath...

·        I am very glad that people are trying to keep Christ in Christmas, but I more concerned that we should keep Christ in our life every day. Some people forget the poor and lonely after Christmas.

·        Be Proud to say Merry Christmas with Love not just brave and saying it with sarcasm...

·        I believe people have made an effort to say Merry Christmas more. I always enjoy adopting children from the angel tree through work and helping families through church. I sponsored a world vision child for the first time this year, 5 year old Darwin from Honduras and received a Christmas card from him today. Made my day!!! So blessed to be able to do that for him!

·        Maybe this controversy now going on with Phil Robertson of Duck Dynasty this will help bring more awareness to how we should be more Christ like and stand up and speak up for our beliefs and what the Bible says. The Facebook chatter is pretty heavy about slamming the TV station that suspended him for him speaking his religious beliefs. Maybe this will help us Christians be stronger also and stand up for Christ. This could be a very good start of helping others stand up for Christ every day of their lives not just a Christmas.

·        Where my husband works they took an angel from the tree and we bought some things for an 11 year old boy. What a good feeling to reach out.

·        It was awesome the company that adopted all the leftover angels- 170 of them!!! Two years in a row! I pray that God blesses them and their business to prosper.

·        I know a family who participated in a drive-through live Nativity scene. They took their grandson and explained what each scene was about to try to instill in him, at a young age, what Christmas really is about.

·        We know a married couple who are friends of ours and I shared with them that we've set a small monetary amount on us and they aren't doing much if anything for themselves. Rather, they are giving to others with Love... This is true Christ-Mas Love....

·        I heard a cool thing this week- a man said that he raised his family to always read the Christmas story before opening presents. His grown son was in the service in Germany and the hours are different than here but he stayed up late so he could call in on Christmas Day and hear the reading of the Christmas story with his family. I loved that and makes me want to start that as a tradition this year.

·        I think it starts with family and home. I think it's more difficult for folks that grow up in a non-Christian family. It's easy to tell children things but traditions are forever and that's why we need to incorporate more Christian traditions in our everyday lives all year- not just at Christmas.

·        We can live every day, 365 as though it's Christmas Eve/Day... This makes for the best counselling sessions....

·        I think we best keep Christ in Christmas when we share our time with others, especially those with no family, and those in assisted living and nursing home facilities. It may not seem much but just being a little part of someone's life for a few minutes can mean a lot. Reading the Christmas Story to someone who cannot do it for themselves is keeping Christ in Christmas. Sharing with those in need always represents Christ. Susan. I will always remember your Daddy giving of his talents and resources. All the time. Going out of his way to do so. Have a Blessed Christmas

·        And we all certainly need to remember those who have no family . . . not only during this Christmas season but throughout the year . . .

·        Struggled with this - finally I really try to focus on "what would Jesus do" try to be more patient - kinder - to everyone I come in contact with and make the effort to carry it throughout the year - also as stated  . . .  reaching out to those that have no family here locally –

·        Through example is the best way to let God's light shine. Little things such as common courtesy, doing a kindness for the sake of being kind and not for the pat on the back. Let Christ come out in your actions, your tone of voice.

·        Do not like the commercial aspect of Christmas - as an only child - adopted by my aunt and uncle - it was never about the "stuff" - - so it completely overwhelms me sometimes - it much more joyful to realize what the season is really about and to put it into practice - brings me more joy than any presents

·        Living for Christmas is a process. It needs to build daily for the final climax for the recognition of Christ birthday. Just like the wise men traveled for days. I want to make my journey memorable by who I've touched on my pathway....

·        I myself have been practicing Pay it Forward this year and it’s made me feel more in spirit and close to God than any other Christmas when I was running around gift purchasing and trying to impress everyone! It's not about that! At all! It's when the gift comes from the heart! And being kind to others and speaking for the greater good of God, not saying it to bother those who don't believe in Christ in Christmas! I say Merry Christmas to maybe touch and inspire another! It's about doing small gestures for strangers! Making friends and sharing in love and laughter! That's how I'm trying to keep Christ in Christmas this year! God Bless all those that are!

·        Keeping Christ in Christmas doing things for others singing carols baking sharing and Rang the bell for couple hours for food bank with my daddy

·        Being Christ like at Christmas - it's the little things - a smile to the overworked cashier - the server at McDonalds :)

·        Was talking to a friend this morning who was telling me she had gone shopping at the JC Mall yet couldn't find anything for the ones she was buying for which made her realize Christmas not about having to run out and spend money on buying presents . . .

·        I love volunteering at local health care it’s such a blessing we took them shopping today. That’s Christmas

·        Christ like - means looking around at your neighbors - offer a helping hand - anything - sometimes the people closest to us need assistance but don't want to impose

·        I think walking the Walk at Christmas time is the best way to keep Christ at Christmastime! He needs to be the center of everything! Give a gift to someone (whether it costs a lot or not) to someone from the heart! Give because you want them to feel loved not because you "have too" be the kind of person you want your children to marry!

·        Christmas is the celebration of Christ birth but it is a series of events that leads us to the day we can reach His table showing the gifts we've delivered this year in His name....

I hope you enjoyed reading all the posts we received. Are there other ways we can keep Christ in Christmas? If so, please leave a comment!

Merry Christmas,
Scott, Susan & Austin

Tuesday, December 10, 2013

Only to Susan - Chapter 22

Had I not already published “Only to Susan” it would have 22 chapters after yesterday, not 21. And since you asked . . .

As many of you know, we were scheduled to fly to the Cancer Treatment Center of America (CTCA) – Chicago yesterday morning for my third chemo treatment, in addition to several other appointments. Our flight was scheduled for 7:55 a.m. out of Knoxville.

Sunday night, Scott decided to set his alarm on his phone for 4 a.m. He likes to get up early, take his time, enjoy a cup of coffee, watch the news, etc. Me? I like to get up, hop in the shower and go! But to ensure we did not oversleep, I reluctantly agreed to set my alarm for 4 a.m., too, just in case his did not go off. I know. Highly unlikely, but . . .

After my alarm went off, as I never heard his, my eyes surpassingly popped wide open – I wasn’t groggy at all! Of course, Scott was already downstairs doing what he does. He, much like his “sister-in-law” Debbie cannot sleep the night before traveling so he woke up at 1:45 a.m. but continued to try to go back to sleep until 3:30 a.m. before calling it a night . . . or a morning :)

After making the bed, I began getting my things together for our one night stay. Once Scott reappeared, with my cup of hot coffee . . . God, I love him, he too began getting his things together as we only had to pack for an overnight trip = one carry on. Since I woke up early, we were ahead of schedule. He told me he’d like to stop by Wal-Mart and get a mock turtleneck (more on this later). I thought, “Really????” But . . . whatever . . .

As we left the house before o’dark thirty in a down pour of rain, we made our way to Wal-Mart, which is a short distance from our house. Scott asked if I was going in, and I politely said, “nooo-oh”. I was confident he would not find what he was looking for and return quickly and empty handed. To my surprise, he did return rather quickly and with his purchase in hand . . . I thought “wow” and continued to pray he would NOT wear it.

After leaving Wal-Mart, my husband treated me to a country ham biscuit with extra ham . . . hey, I need to live a little . . .  before officially beginning our trek to the airport. With a biscuit in one hand, I managed to check our flight status on my United Airlines app and was somewhat surprised and disappointed to discover our flight had been delayed four hours and six minutes. I thought, well, if this is true, we should still get there in time for my chemo at 4 p.m. (CST).

Thank goodness, the closer we got to Knoxville the less it was raining. My courteous husband dropped me off at the terminal then parked the car. As I darted through the automatic doors, the first thing I did was check the monitor and sure enough my app was right on. Our 7:55 a.m. flight was now scheduled for an estimated 12:01 p.m. departure.

Since I had already checked us in using my handy-dandy app, I just had to wait for my prince charming to return after parking the car so we could make our way through security. For the first time . . . ever . . . we both were selected to go through pre-screening, meaning, we just walked through the detector with our hats, coats and shoes on, our lap tops in bags, etc. The reason I share this is it never fails when we fly Scott ALWAYS gets to go through pre-screening, but me? I ALWAYS have to go through the “regular” way, removing almost everything. We always joke about it, plus, it’s become almost like a competition between us although the gentleman or lady at the first security check point decides who wins the competition since he or she points the direction for us to go.

After making our way through security, we stopped for our ritual Starbucks coffee before cautiously proceeding to our gate just hoping we’d discover our flight was on time but nope . . . no such luck. We found a few open seats by the windows with plug-ins so we could charge up all of our electronics in preparation for the wait. Oh! I almost forgot . . . Scott’s drink of choice at Starbucks is a dry Hazelnut Cappuccino with only two squirts of syrup, not four, and three-fourths foam, plus an extra shot of espresso. While I waited in line “just” to see what our options were to get to Chicago earlier, he returned his drink because it was too milky. As was his second. So, this time I returned it, and a young lady made it since the young gentleman was 0 for 2. Well, she failed this barista’s expectation too (Scott use to own a coffee shop), but by this time we learned our flight to Chicago was cancelled, so we had other things to deal with besides a cappuccino . . .

Immediately, a mile long line formed at the gate counter. Fortunately, the CTCA has their own travel/scheduling department so I made a phone call to them. Unfortunately, our options were limited. We were not going to be able to get to Chicago until later that evening or even possibly the Tuesday. Ironically, while trying to ensure the CTCA could reschedule my appointments for Tuesday and Wednesday I received a call from another travel rep as he saw our flight was cancelled and was offering his assistance to reschedule our flight and appointments.

Since they were able to reschedule my appointments for Tuesday and Wednesday, we elected to drive to Nashville to catch a 6:44 p.m. (CST) direct flight last evening to Chicago. Sound crazy? Well, it was our best option at the time. There was also a 2:07 p.m. (CST) direct flight, which appeared to be full, but we knew if we got to Nashville in time we might be able to get standby on that one.

As we packed it up in Knoxville and made our way to the parking garage, someone who will remain anonymous could not remember where he parked his car. This someone knew we were on the right level, but where did he park the car? By the way, this is very not like this certain someone. As my teeth were chattering, this someone finally spotted a truck he recognized, which parked near him, just before my nose became frozen while touring level two of the McGhee Tyson Airport. Shortly thereafter, this particular someone had me safe and warm in the confines of his car.

I don’t think I’ve mentioned this but all the while we laughed and found humor in most of what I have shared. I was a little worried about driving all the way to Nashville and the flight being cancelled there, but after we both said a prayer, we were Nashville bound.

Sunday, I made a “turn” (if you’ve read my book you’ll understand) of homemade Chex party mix, thinking it would make for a great snack while on the plane yesterday morning, but we pretty much devoured it on our way to Nashville instead . . . who would’ve thought? The drive went by pretty quickly. Of course, Scott had the Mustang traveling at the speed of light . . . just kidding. However, I did spot a Tusculum College alumni license plate about five, maybe 10 minutes from the airport exit on I-40. I’m not sure, but it looked like Roger Abramson as we flew by in the HOV lane. If it was you Roger, sorry I didn’t wave!

The last time I was at the Nashville airport I was young . . . really young. For many summers, my parents and I vacationed at Opryland. As part of our vacation, my dad would bring us to the airport and I’d sit on the hood of his car watching the airplanes take off and come in. Unlike a lot of children today, I didn’t fly until I was a young adult so simply watching the airplanes at a young age was mesmerizing to me.

Once again, Scott dropped me off at the terminal so I could make my way to the ticket counter in hopes we could obtain standby status on the 2:07 flight. Scott joined me with our carry-on bag while I was in conversation with the attendant. She put us on standby while assuring me we were still confirmed for the 6:44 flight.

We made our way to security and guess what . . . you guessed it! Scott was sent through pre-screening but not me! After a good laugh, he helped me get my books, coat, scarf and hat back on as he had the lap top and carry-on bag with him. I still just don’t get that but anyway . . .

I told Scott I wanted to ensure the lady told me correctly as I did not want to lose our seats on the 6:44 p.m. flight so I was going to check in at the gate counter. While he stepped to the restroom, I learned the 2:07 flight was delayed until 4 p.m., but yes  . . .  even though we’re on standby, our seats were guaranteed on the 6:44 p.m. flight. In the meantime, an announcement was made, “Susan Teague, please return to security . . . Susan Teague please return to security”. I have never heard my name announced in an airport before. Of all things? I left my phone. But I checked my tubs? My wonderful husband took my ID and returned to security for me. I had not left it in a tub but on the bench where we were putting my boots back on.  Thank God they found it . . .

Since we knew we had plenty of time, we decided to grab some lunch at a nearby Mexican restaurant. Shortly after we sat down, I noticed Scott had a sleeve showing under his sweater. After taking a double-take and trying hard to observe his “mock turtleneck”, which he put on at the Knoxville airport parking garage, I asked him if it was one piece. He laughed and said, “Yes”.  I lowered my head, with my hands on my cap and began laughing almost hysterically. Remember Cousin Eddie in Christmas Vacation? Remember the dark colored “dickey” he was wearing under his white/cream colored sweater? Well, when Scott told me this morning he wanted a “mock turtleneck” a “dickey” is what I had in mind! So I confessed and told him the story. He was not sure if he could forgive me for having such little confidence in his choice of fashion, but boy we got a big laugh out of it!

Following our almuerzo (lunch), we made our way back to the gate area to learn the 2:07 flight was now delayed until 6:35, nine minutes prior to our 6:44 flight . . . . . . hmmmmmmmm. Since we have plenty of time, my gracious husband made a special trip back to the car to retrieve my favorite pink/glittery hat, which many of you have seen. I actually was wearing it this morning but while at the Knoxville airport, where Scott bought it for me several weeks ago, I purchased a black one just like it as it complimented my black and pink attire much better :)  By the way, on his way back through security? You guessed it! He was directed through pre-screening. Unbelievable . . .

Not to my surprise, our 6:44 p.m. was delayed an hour and one minute, then an hour and 16 minutes then finally an hour and 46 minutes before pulling into F9, our gate. After eating cena (dinner) at the same Mexican restaurant, but at different table, working a word search and walking the halls for exercise, it was finally time to grab our bags and board the plane. Albeit, it was about 8:50 p.m. (CTS), we were finally on our way to Chicago. And get this . . . remember the 2:07 flight we were on standby on? It had yet to arrive but was scheduled to land about an hour after we took off.

While on our way to Chicago, I slept the entire flight. I barely remember taking off, but I certainly remember landing. As I woke up, I was literally sweating. I thought, “Oh my God . . . am I sick? Do I have a fever?” Should I have a fever I could not receive my chemo. Then I looked at Scott, and he was sweating, too! I quickly realized it was the temperature on the plane. I was relieved I didn’t have a fever, and was actually thankful when I stepped off the plane to feel the frigid temperatures on my cheeks . . . it was an immediate cool down! Our driver was waiting for us so we bundled up with our hats, coats, gloves and ear muffs, or as Scott likes to refer to them, our 180s’s, before walking outside for a short, brisk walk to the limo. Once again, I slept all the way to our hotel.

Upon arriving at our hotel, the trees and shrubs were a welcoming site as they were brilliantly lit up for Christmas. As we walked into the lobby, we both took a deep breath. It is now around midnight (CST). Scott looked at me with his warm smile and said, “We’re here, and we’re safe”. And he was right. After living out my fictional Chapter 22 since about 3:30 a.m., we arrived in our room. While Scott was enjoying a bowl of Cornflakes and the Golf Channel, I was enjoying watching vision of sugar plums dance in my head.